{forgive = forget} OR {forget = forgive}??
Forgiveness, i think i need.
I need to forgive Miss K for the hurt that was done to me.
In the book "The Secret of loving" from Josh McDowell, he says highlight forgiveness in one of his chapters.
"To forgive is to give up all claims on one who has hurt you and let go the emotional consequence of that hurt."
"To forgive also mean to give up or give away"
Did i really give up on that relationship? Did i really forgive Miss K for the hurt that she is doing in my life? Somehow after reading the chaper, it also state the reason why people cannot forgive!
Insecure: feel insecure with ourself or our relationship with God.
Jealousy: We don't want to forgive someone who has something we think we shd have.
Self Pity: I've been hurt more then anyone, and i can't forgive any more!
For each of this traits noted in the book, i have my own interpretation of it.
1st: because i dun have a healthy relationship with God tt's why i feel insecure abt the relationship that i have wif miss k.
2nd: i do have feelings of jealousy about her. i still have feelings like how come she is not wif me or when i see her with another guy i will feel jealous!
3rd: Self pity might be a tool that i'll be using to get people's attention which i yearn so much for! So much so that i might not want to give up this fail relationship so that i can tell this story again and again so tt people will notice me and talk to me more. But the price is the never ending hurt!
Many times i know what i need to do, but the problem is i'm not doing what i know i must do!! Well the fact tt i'm still affected by this relationship is that i not willing to let go. The emotion of sadness and just wanting to stone and do nothing is just so overwhelm whenever i see her photo or see her in person!
The solution?? To let Jesus be my model.
Josh writes: " ... i can't explain it exactly, but the power of forgive will always come if you let it in!!"
Can i forgive her? Can i forget her? Can we be normal again?
The power is all in my hands! Will i be willing to let go and let God?
I need to forgive Miss K for the hurt that was done to me.
In the book "The Secret of loving" from Josh McDowell, he says highlight forgiveness in one of his chapters.
"To forgive is to give up all claims on one who has hurt you and let go the emotional consequence of that hurt."
"To forgive also mean to give up or give away"
Did i really give up on that relationship? Did i really forgive Miss K for the hurt that she is doing in my life? Somehow after reading the chaper, it also state the reason why people cannot forgive!
Insecure: feel insecure with ourself or our relationship with God.
Jealousy: We don't want to forgive someone who has something we think we shd have.
Self Pity: I've been hurt more then anyone, and i can't forgive any more!
For each of this traits noted in the book, i have my own interpretation of it.
1st: because i dun have a healthy relationship with God tt's why i feel insecure abt the relationship that i have wif miss k.
2nd: i do have feelings of jealousy about her. i still have feelings like how come she is not wif me or when i see her with another guy i will feel jealous!
3rd: Self pity might be a tool that i'll be using to get people's attention which i yearn so much for! So much so that i might not want to give up this fail relationship so that i can tell this story again and again so tt people will notice me and talk to me more. But the price is the never ending hurt!
Many times i know what i need to do, but the problem is i'm not doing what i know i must do!! Well the fact tt i'm still affected by this relationship is that i not willing to let go. The emotion of sadness and just wanting to stone and do nothing is just so overwhelm whenever i see her photo or see her in person!
The solution?? To let Jesus be my model.
Josh writes: " ... i can't explain it exactly, but the power of forgive will always come if you let it in!!"
Can i forgive her? Can i forget her? Can we be normal again?
The power is all in my hands! Will i be willing to let go and let God?
posted by Rongjie at 10:02 PM
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